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Unintended Behavior Reinforcement

Children may learn to act out when misbehavior ends conflict or helps them get what they want.

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Craig Donnelly, MD, Pediatric Psychiatry

  • Positive reinforcement is widely understood, but negative reinforcement is equally important in shaping behavior.
  • In households with frequent parental conflict, children may act out, which inadvertently stops the parents’ arguing.
  • The child’s misbehavior is negatively reinforced because it removes an unpleasant stimulus (parental conflict) and redirects attention toward them.
  • Similarly, children learn that escalating behavior, like screaming or throwing tantrums, can result in parents giving in to demands.
  • These patterns are usually inadvertent, but they reinforce oppositional or externalizing behaviors over time.
     

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