- Parents often present a long list of behavioral concerns, but focusing on every minor issue can be overwhelming and counterproductive.
- The priority should be addressing behaviors that impact children’s future relationships, such as aggression, hitting, or yelling.
- Letting minor behaviors slide can help build positive parent-child interactions and reduce daily stress.
- Using strategies like praising acceptable behavior and limiting unnecessary criticism strengthens the parent-child relationship.
- Once a strong relational foundation is in place, setting boundaries for serious behaviors becomes more effective.
- Focusing on key behaviors improves children’s social skills and maintains a healthier family dynamic.
Focusing on Key Behaviors for Success
Focusing on the most important behaviors and building positive interactions strengthens family relationships.

James Craig, PhD, MA, Pediatric Psychiatry