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How to Manage and Avoid Tantrums

Understanding why tantrums happen and how to respond calmly can help parents guide their children through big emotions more effectively.

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Nina Sand-Loud, MD, Child Development

  • Tantrums are a normal developmental stage, often occurring when young children have strong emotions but limited language to express them.
  • Common triggers include unmet basic needs (hunger, fatigue, overstimulation), desire for independence, and inability to communicate wants or feelings.
  • Prevention strategies: maintaining consistent routines, ensuring adequate food and sleep, and balancing busy times with quiet periods.
  • Parents can help by modeling emotional language—labeling feelings like “mad” or “frustrated”—to build a child’s emotional vocabulary.
  • During a tantrum, parents should stay calm, use minimal words, allow space if needed, and wait until after the tantrum to discuss feelings and behavior.
     

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