- Effective discipline starts with a strong, positive relationship between parent and child.
- Focus on positive interactions alongside discipline to maintain trust and connection.
- Target only a few behaviors at a time and have a clear, pre-planned strategy for addressing them.
- Some behaviors require immediate attention (e.g., hurting others), while others can be ignored when appropriate.
- Effective consequences should be immediate, consistent, mild and brief.
- Communication and alignment with co-parents or caregivers is essential to maintain consistency.
Discipline Starts with Positive Interactions
Focusing on connection first helps discipline teach, not punish.

James Craig, PhD, MA, Pediatric Psychiatry