- It’s normal for kids, especially as they grow, to push boundaries or isolate themselves as part of healthy development.
- This separation helps them form their own identity and prepare for adulthood.
- Parents should stay present and attentive when children are ready to engage, offering listening and support without judgment.
- Children often seek understanding and validation more than solutions to their problems.
- Calm, respectful conversations about rules and limits are more effective once emotions have settled.
- Explaining the “why” behind decisions helps kids understand and respect boundaries, not just follow them.
Teen Pushback is Normal
Staying patient and supportive helps children feel heard while learning to respect limits.
Catherine Shubkin, MD, Pediatrics
