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Teens Need Love, Limits and Choices

Parenting teens means balancing clear rules with trust and support as they gain independence.

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Catherine Shubkin, MD, Pediatrics

  • Parenting teens is challenging, but the goal is to build strong, lasting relationships while supporting their independence.
  • Teens need unconditional love and support, especially when they make mistakes or face natural consequences.
  • Parents should hold teens to high expectations by setting clear rules and boundaries, while recognizing that teens will naturally push back.
  • Giving teens choices and decision-making opportunities helps them build responsibility and confidence.
  • For safety and health issues, firm rules are necessary, but for less critical matters (like hair color), offering freedom is appropriate.
  • Inviting teens into problem-solving conversations fosters trust and helps them learn to navigate difficult situations.
  • Practicing decision-making with parental support prepares teens to make wise choices in adulthood.
     

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